Monday, July 13, 2009
Missed the ER this week
I was sick over  the weekend so I couldn't go into the ER today to help out.  I did want to share something I watched last time I went and what I learned from it.  I was walking back from the waiting room on my way to check on some patients when I suddenly heard a most terrible wail followed by intense sobbing.  I looked over to see a woman (maybe in her twenties) sitting down and a hospital employee sitting across from her.  The woman was trying hard to control herself but couldn't help but choke out intense tears.  I didn't immediately know what was going on, and there wasn't much I could do to help.  I soon found out that she had been awaiting her fathers transfer to the ER when she recieved news that he had unexpectadly passed away while in transit. I always kinda wondered what it would be like to have to tell someone terrible news.  I thought that I might shy away from such a thing.  But as I watched this poor woman struggle I couldn't help but want to reach out to her.  Telling someone bad news might be hard, but doing it right could make a world of difference to someone.  I now know that I'm not afraid of doing something like that because I know that I could make a difference and help someone get through something very difficult.  It reminds me of a friend back east who had a miscarriage and said that a patient doctor who was willing to just sit with them for a time while he could have been off doing other things made a HUGE difference to her and her husband.  That is the kind of doctor I want to be.
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